Pray without ceasing...

When most people contemplate the meaning of Paul's famous phrase, the emphasis is always placed on ''without ceasing.''  The questions asked are What does without ceasing mean?  How do I get to a place in my spiritual life when I pray incessantly? 

As I have been pondering the balance of life that is found in spiritual discipline and self-control, the place between spontaneity and legalism, what clicked with me is that if we are having trouble praying without ceasing, maybe it is our definition of pray(er), and not our definition of without ceasing, that is out of whack.

We need to rethink prayer.

But what does that definition of prayer look like...?